Online Specialist Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy | Sex-positive | Couples therapy | ENM | Sex and Porn addictions (CSB) | Kink-aware | Nationwide UK | Based in Chester
As a COSRT Sex and Relationship Specialist and a Integrative Counsellor, I work with individuals, couples and multiple partnered people that are facing problems around Sex, Intimacy, Relationships and Trauma that are causing anxiety, depression, embarrassment, frustration or shame.
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Individuals...
Couples...
For kinky folk...
No need to struggle with your issues I am here to help!
"Why Choose a Sex and Relationship Therapist?"
Are you looking for support from a professional who has trained in a specialist field, to help you work through a specific issues?
As a COSRT Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, I have a professional expertise in working within the themes of sex, intimacy and relationship problems and have studied extensively in this field.
Areas I Specialise In
Relationships issues I specialise In
Unconventional Relationships
I also offer space beyond the typical "vanilla" relationship, offering sessions to help explore and navigate opening your relationship up to others in exploring romantic and/or sexual experiences, this includes working within the themes of Consensual Non Monogamy, Ethical Non Monogamy, Open Relationships, Swinging and Polyamory.
Kink - Fetish - BDSM
I offer a kink-aware space in supporting clients within any kink, fetish and BDSM issues. This ranges from exploring an interest in this area or needing a safe space to process emotions and feelings around your sexual beliefs, from understanding and navigating, to rules and boundaries within these themes.
How I work....
I tailor-making sessions for individuals, couples and multiple partnered people to ensure your sessions are specific to your needs. I use a range of therapeutic interventions and may set homework to help you move towards your goals more effectively. In my trauma work I combine the Rewind technique, in helping you create change from your past experiences.
I'm an open minded therapist, who is supportive, compassion and will be honest with you in sessions. I offer short-term and long-term therapy by using evidence-based methods. I love my work and although therapy can be hard at times, the end result can be truly rewarding.
Short-Term Therapy
Some sex and relationship concerns may be resolved within 8 to 12 sessions, sessions are tailored to your needs. Whether you are working towards a specific goal or feel that longer support would be more beneficial, I will work at your pace. The choice is always yours.
Long-Term Therapy
Long-term relationship conflicts often require a deeper level of support. I use evidence-based therapeutic approaches of rupture to repair to help you break free from the blaming and shaming cycle in your relationships. By fostering curiosity instead of judgement, I will support you in moving towards a place of genuine understanding, appreciation and lasting connection.
Or if you are seeking a safe space in being able to end your relationship.
Therapy Approaches
I offer a pluralistic approach to therapy, drawing on Person-centred, CBT, Psychodynamic and Clinical Sexology of Bio-Psycho-Social models and Neuroscience for trauma work.
Couples Therapy
I combined the approaches of Gottman Method, Imago Therapy, Attachment Theory and Terry Real's relational therapy in my couples work. For Ethical Non Monogamy and Open Relationships. I work within Niki D's seven stages of opening up approach.
As an experienced COSRT Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist and a Qualified Integrative Counsellor. I offer a Sex- Positive inclusive practice that is Trauma-Informed and Kink-Aware, for all Genders, Sexual Orientations, Relationship Dynamics and Neurodivergences.
Reach out today and make that first step!
Please see a list of my qualifications and extended training below:
Qualifications
Clinical Sexology, Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy - CICS - COSRT Accred - Level 7
Diploma in Integrative Counselling - ABC Awards - Level 4
Counselling Skills - ABC Awards - Level 3
Counselling Skills - ABC Awards - Level 2
Certificate in Online Counselling - Counselling Tutor
Extended Training CPD
Suicidal Awareness - Dr Andrew Reeves
Bereavement Counselling - Dr John Wilson
Monogamy Versus Non Monogamy - Pink Therapy
Working with Couples and Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) - COSRT Accred
Working with Partners affected by Compulsive Sexual Behaviours and Porn Addiction - COSRT Accred
Personalizing Therapy - Mick Cooper
Tribes of Person-Centred - Mick Cooper
Goals in Therapy - Mick Cooper
Relational Depth - Mick Cooper
Imago Therapy Part 1 - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
Imago Therapy Part 2 - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
Imago Therapy Part 3 - Dr Kalanit Ben- Ari
Imago Therapy Part 4 - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
Projection and Transference - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
Beyond the Affair - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
Considering Separation - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
I can support you in identifying and understanding any issues that you're experiencing related to high sexual desire or pornography use,
These patterns can often lead to feelings of distress, shame or a sense of being out of control, impacting your relationships, work, or overall well-being. In a non shaming space, we will explore the roots of this concerns, helping you regain balance and peace in your life.
Struggling with a Decreased Libido? Erection problems, Orgasm Difficulties, experiencing Painful Sex, Ejaculation Issues DE or PE. Anxiety, Depression or Self Esteem Issues?
Individual therapy provides a confidential one-to-one space to address these intimate concerns. I'll support you in exploring underlying themes, help you find solutions and build confidence for a more fulfilling sexual well-being.
I help couples tackle Communication Issues, Unhealthy Patterns of Behaviours, Intimacy Issues, and Healing from Infidelity and Affairs.
In a safe unbiased space, we'll confront root causes and develop practical strategies. My direct approach will hopefully empower you both to rebuild trust, enhance connection, and achieve a more fulfilling relationship together.
Seeking therapy for sex and relationship concerns can feel like a big step, but it’s one that can lead to meaningful change. You may be struggling with issues around intimacy, desire, or unhealthy sexual behaviours and may feel stuck, ashamed, or unsure of how to move forward. Therapy offers you a space to explore these challenges with professional support, helping you to gain insight and develop healthier patterns.
Through a tailored approach, I will work with you to address your specific needs. Whether that means overcoming barriers to intimacy, working through past experiences, or improving communication in relationships. Therapy can help you build a deeper understanding of yourself and empower you to create more fulfilling connections in your life.
Take the next step. Reach out today to arrange an reduced-fee consultation.
Sexual Issues
Relationship Issues
This list represents just some of the diverse issues I help individuals and couples navigate.
Please reach out - my approach is always tailored to your unique needs.
Your first 50-minute consultation is offered at a reduced fee of £50
This session is designed for us to conduct a thorough assessment, providing a non-shaming space for you to share the issues you're struggling with.
It's a key opportunity for me to understand your needs and for us to begin planning your therapeutic journey together.
It's also a chance for you to experience my approach first hand and ensure we're the right fit for your journey forward.
There's no pressure, just an opportunity to gain clarity.
My practice is based in Chester, Cheshire (CH1) UK. and I work completely online. This allows me to offer accessible psychosexual and relationship therapy to individuals, couples and multiple partnered people throughout the UK.
Whether you are Cheshire, Liverpool or anywhere else in the country, I provide a secure and confidential space for our work together.
Sessions are available weekly and fortnightly.
My diary works from week to week and I do not offer block bookings.
Practice Hours:
My sessions fees reflect my specialist qualifications, extensive experience, and the dedicate, confidential space I provide for your therapeutic work.
All sessions are for 50 minutes
Payments policy:
To secure your session, full payment is required via bank transfer at the time of booking.
Bank details will be shared with you as part of the booking process.
I tailor make the sessions for the individuals, couples and multiple partner people I am working with.
You may want to attend therapy for a short time, just requiring a few sessions to have space to work through a particular issue you are having.
Or you seek longer term therapy for issues that need longer support.
Every therapeutic journey is unique: you may find you need fewer sessions, or you may choose to have more. Ultimately, the choice is yours how long you attend therapy for.
I require 48 hours notice of cancelling an online session.
Any cancellations made under the notice, will sadly incur in the full fee being withheld.
I aim to reply to all messages within 24 hours, Monday to Friday! Please check your junk box as my replies can sometimes go there. Reach out today, I look forward to working with you.