Online Therapy: Sex & Intimacy, Couples, Kink-aware, Trauma | Trusting Heart

psychosexual & Relationship Therapy in chester, Cheshire CH1 & online

Online Psychosexual and Relationship Therapy in Chester | Trauma-informed | Kink-aware | Couples therapy | Serving Cheshire | Merseyside | Liverpool | Online throughout the UK

Rebeca Johnson

Dip, PGDip, MBACP & RegCOSRT

As a sex and relationship specialist, I work with individuals and couples facing issues of sex, intimacy, and relationships that are causing anxiety, depression, embarrassment, frustration or shame.

  • Has your relationship become sexless?


  • Are you consistently arguing or disagreeing?


  • Are you experiencing performance issues in the bedroom?


  • Is porn becoming an issue in your life or within your relationship?


  • Are you wanting to explore open relationships, ethical non monogamy, swinging or polyamorous relationships?

  • Do you need a safe space to explore challenges or questions around your engagement with kink, fetish and BDSM practices?

I AM HERE TO HELP!


How I Work.

I offer short-term therapy by using evidence-based methods. I'm an open minded therapist, who is compassionate, yet honest with you in sessions. I love my work and although therapy can be hard at times, the end result can be truly rewarding.

Short-Term Therapy.

Some issues can be resolved within 8-12 sessions, helping you work towards the goals you want to achieve from therapy. You might feel fewer sessions are all you need, or while attending therapy, you may decide you need more. The choice is yours!


Areas I Specialise In.

  • Low to no sexual interest.
  • Painful sex during penetration.
  • Erectile Dysfunction ED.
  • Ejaculation problems: Delay Ejaculation DE and Premature Ejaculation PE.
  • Mismatched sexual needs.
  • Orgasm difficulties.
  • Sexual Identity.
  • Sexual Traumas
  • Problematic sexual behaviours, sex addiction and porn addiction.
  • Issues related to kink, fetish and BDSM interests and practices.


Relationships issues I specialise In.

  • Communication problems.
  • Recovering from an infidelity.
  • Feeling distant from your partner.
  • Missing connection and togetherness.
  • Constant arguing and disagreeing.
  • Mismatched sexual interests.
  • Underlying issues creating pressing matters towards separation and divorce.


Unconventional Relationships.

I also offer space beyond the typical "vanilla" relationship, offering sessions to help explore or navigate opening your relationship up to others in exploring romantic and/or sexual experiences, this includes working within the labels of Consensual Non Monogamy, Ethical Non Monogamy, Open Relationships, Swinging and polyamory.


"Why Choose a Sex and Relationship Therapist?"

Are you looking for support from a professional who has trained in a specialist field, to help you work through a specific issue. As a Psychosexual therapist I have a professional expertise in working within the themes of sex, intimacy and relationship problems and have studied extensively in this field.


I offer a kink-aware space in supporting clients within any kink, fetish and BDSM issues. This ranges from exploring an interest in this theme and needing a safe space to process emotions and feelings around your sexual beliefs, from understanding and navigating, to rules and boundaries within this theme.


I'm an Experienced and Qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist and a Qualified Integrative Therapist. I offer a Trauma-Informed, kink-aware, inclusive practice that is Sex- Positive, for all Genders, Sexual Orientations, Relationship Dynamics, Religious Beliefs and Neurodivergencies.

Reach out today; make that first step!

Qualifications & Training

Please see a list of my qualifications and extended training below:

Qualifications

Clinical Sexology, Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy - CICS - COSRT Accred - Level 7

Diploma in Integrative Counselling - ABC Awards - Level 4

Counselling Skills - ABC Awards - Level 3

Counselling Skills - ABC Awards - Level 2

Certificate in Online Counselling - Counselling Tutor

Extended Training CPD

Suicidal Awareness - Dr Andrew Reeves

Bereavement Counselling - Dr John Wilson

Monogamy Versus Non Monogamy - Pink Therapy

Working with Couples and Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) - COSRT Accred

Working with Partners affected by Compulsive Sexual Behaviours and Porn Addiction - COSRT Accred

Personalizing Therapy - Mick Cooper

Tribes of Person-Centred - Mick Cooper

Goals in Therapy - Mick Cooper

Relational Depth - Mick Cooper



What Issues Can Sex Therapy Help With?

Problematic Sexual Behaviours and Porn Use


I can support you in identifying and understanding any issues that you're experiencing related to high sexual desire or pornography use,

These patterns can often lead to feelings of distress, shame or a sense of being out of control, impacting your relationships, work, or overall well-being. In a non shaming space, we will explore the roots of this concerns, helping you regain balance and peace in your life.

Individual Sex Therapy

Struggling with an decreased libido? Erection anxiety, orgasm difficulties, experiencing painful sex? Individual therapy provides a confidential one-to-one space to address these intimate concerns. I'll support you in exploring underlying themes, help you find solutions and build confidence for a more fulfilling sexual well-being.

Couples Therapy

I help couples tackle communication breakdowns, intimacy issues, and infidelity directly. In a safe unbiased space, we'll confront root causes and develop practical strategies. My direct approach empowers you both to rebuild trust, enhance connection, and achieve a more fulfilling relationship together.

How Can Sex Therapy Help You?

Seeking therapy for sex and relationship concerns can feel like a big step, but it’s one that can lead to meaningful change. You maybe struggling with issues around intimacy, desire, or unhealthy sexual behaviours and may feel stuck, ashamed, or unsure of how to move forward. Therapy offers you a space to explore these challenges with professional support, helping you to gain insight and develop healthier patterns.


Through a tailored approach, I will work with you to address your specific needs. Whether that means overcoming barriers to intimacy, working through past experiences, or improving communication in relationships. therapy can help you build a deeper understanding of yourself and empower you to create more fulfilling connections in your life.


Take the next step. Reach out today to arrange an reduced-fee consultation.

Further Areas I Can Support You With:

Sexual Issues

  • Erectile Dysfunction
  • Low libido
  • Painful sex
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Difficulty orgasming
  • Lack of sexual desire
  • Sexual performance anxiety
  • Vaginismus
  • Compulsive sexual behaviour
  • Problematic porn use
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Arousal problems
  • Body image and sex
  • Sexual identity
  • Sex after childbirth
  • Sexual dysfunction
  • Kink, fetish and BDSM interests



Relationship Issues

  • Communication problems
  • Intimacy issues
  • Trust issues
  • Conflict resolution
  • Infidelity
  • Emotionally distant
  • Sexual issues
  • Building a stronger connection
  • Divorce and separation
  • Boundaries (relationship)
  • Polyamory
  • Ethical Non Monogamy
  • Navigating kink boundaries
  • Pre-martial counselling
  • Resentment
  • Couples therapy
  • Relationship anxiety
  • LGBTQ+ relationships

This list represents just some of the diverse issues I help individuals and couples navigate.

If your specific issue isn't listed, please reach out - my approach is always tailored to your unique needs.

Reduced-Fee Consultation

Your first 50-minute consultation is offered at a reduced fee of £50

This session is designed for us to conduct a thorough assessment, providing a non-shaming space for you to share the issues you're struggling with.

It's key opportunity for me to understand your needs and for us to begin planning your therapeutic goals together.

It's also a chance for you to experience my approach first hand and ensure we're the right fit for your journey forward.

There's no pressure, just an opportunity to gain clarity.

My Location and Practice Hours

My practice is based in Chester, Cheshire (CH1), and I work completely online. This allows me to offer accessible psychosexual and relationship therapy to individuals and couples in Cheshire, Merseyside (including Liverpool) Online throughout the UK.

Sessions are available weekly and fortnightly.

Practice Hours:

  • Tuesdays: 10 AM till 7 PM
  • Wednesdays: 10 AM till 7 PM
  • Thursdays: 10 AM till 3 PM
  • Fridays: 10 AM till 3 PM



Session Fees

My sessions fees reflect my specialist qualifications, extensive experience, and the dedicate, confidential space I provide for your therapeutic work.

  • Consultation: £50

  • Individual: £80

  • Couples: £110

All sessions are for 50 minutes

Payments policy:

To secure your session, full payment is required via bank transfer at the time of booking.

Bank details will be shared with you as part of the booking process.


Short Term Therapy

Many sex problems and relationship issues can often be effectively addressed within 8-12 sessions. I typically recommend attending therapy weekly for the first four weeks, before transitioning to fortnightly sessions. However, every therapeutic journey is unique: you may find you need fewer sessions, or you may choose to have more. Ultimately, the choice of session length and frequency is always yours.

Cancellation Policy

I require 48 hours notice of cancelling an online session.

Any cancellations made under the notice, will sadly incur in the full being withheld.

Get in touch

I aim to reply to all messages within 24 hours, Monday to Friday! Please check your junk box as my replies can sometimes go there. Reach out today, I look forward to working with you.