Sex Therapy Chester & Couples Counselling Online | Trusting Heart

Sex Therapy and relationship therapy for individuals and couples | Based in chester (CH1) & Online

Sex Therapy Specialist | Couples | Intimacy & Arousal | Affairs & Betrayals | Relationships | ENM | Problematic Porn Use | RLT & Gottman Informed | Based in Chester (CH1) | Online & Nationwide UK

Rebeca Johnson

Dip, PGDip, MBACP & RegCOSRT

I am an Independent Therapist who is a Qualified COSRT Psychosexual & Relationship Specialist based in Chester, providing expert Sex Therapy & Couples Counselling exclusively Online.

I work with Individuals, Couples and Partners using Goal Focused, Short Term Therapy in helping you navigate sexual problems, relationship challenges and intimacy concerns.

Couples Therapy

Do You Answer Yes To Any Of These Questions?

Seeking therapy due to a discovery of an Affair or Betrayal?

Experiencing intimacy problems in your relationship?

Are you looking for therapy to help repair your relationship?

Needing a fresh set of eyes to help you see the patterns you are having?

I offer a proactive, lovingly honest approach in helping you create change fast, using the Goal Focused Therapy of Relational Life Therapy (RLT) and Clinical Sexology.


Sex Therapy

Are You Struggling With Any Of These Issues?

Experiencing Erection and/or Ejaculation issues?

Problems with Pornography & uncontrollable sexual behaviours?

Is sex more painful than pleasurable?

Are you having issues with reaching an Orgasm?

As a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, I work within Bio-Psycho-Social model of Clinical Sexology and blend tools of RLT approach into our sessions.

Relationship Therapy

Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM)

Relationship Therapy is for folks in open relationships, consensual non monogamy, Swinging and Poly dynamics.

Are you navigating opening your relationships and wanting to explore swinging seeking therapy to create clear communication and boundaries?


I am skilled in supporting partners, in managing the unique challenges of ENM, CNM and swinging with helping you create a structure that feels secure and rewarding for everyone involved.

Kink-Aware

Are you seeking a therapist with a true understanding of Kink, Fetish, and BDSM?


I offer a dedicated space to explore your engagement with your lifestyle without the fear of being judged or pathologised. I focus on healthy negotiation, consent and integrating your dynamics into your relationship.

I Am Here To Support You!

Areas of Sex Therapy

  • Low desire to no sexual interest
  • Painful sex during penetration
  • Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
  • Ejaculation problems
  • Delayed Ejaculation (DE)
  • Premature Ejaculation (PE)
  • Mismatched sexual needs
  • Orgasm difficulties
  • Sexual identity
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Problematic sexual behaviours
  • Compulsive sexual behaviour (CSB)
  • Sex addiction
  • Porn addiction
  • Issues related to Kink, Fetish and BDSM interests and practices

Couples Therapy Issues

  • Communication issues
  • Conflict resolution
  • Feeling not heard or seen in your relationship
  • Blaming and shaming behaviours
  • Recovering from an infidelity
  • Healing from an affair
  • Feeling distant from your partner
  • Missing connection and togetherness
  • Mismatched sexual interests

As an Experienced and Qualified COSRT Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist and a Qualified Integrative Counsellor. I offer a Sex- Positive inclusive practice that is Trauma-Informed and Kink-Aware, for all Genders, Sexual Orientations, Neurodivergences and Relationship Dynamics.

Why Choose a Sex and Relationship Therapist?

Are you looking for support from a professional trained in a specialist field to help you work through specific issues?

As an experienced regCOSRT Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist, I have trained to a high professional standard, specialising in the themes of sex, intimacy and relationship problems and have studied extensively in this field.

While many therapists may advertise that they work in this area, my extensive, specialist training allows me to offer a depth of expertise and a unique, proactive approach that sets my practice apart.

How I Work

I offer a Non Traditional Approach to Sex and Relationship Therapy, in that I don't just sit and listen to the issues you are having week after week without direction; instead I provide active, proactive support.

I focus on understanding the specific details of the challenges you are facing. I offer Goal-Focused, Short-Term Therapy designed to get to the heart of the matter quickly and effectively.

In our sessions, I work in a way that is compassionate, honest and lovingly assertive. I am dedicated to helping you understand your current patterns and, more importantly, providing the tools to help you work through them, whether in Individual Sessions or Couples Therapy.

Short-Term Therapy

Many sex and relationship concerns, whether individual sessions or couple therapy can sometimes be resolved in within 8 to 12 sessions.

Therapy is about gaining awareness of the issues you are facing, to planning an outcome or goal you are hoping to achieve from therapy.

Whether you are working towards a specific goal just needing a few sessions or you require longer-term support, I will support you.

Couples Therapy

Long-term relationship conflicts often require a deeper level of support through specialist couples therapy.


I use relational, evidence-based therapeutic tools to guide you through the cycles of harmony, disharmony, and repair. Helping you break free from unhealthy patterns you may have fallen into. Results can happen as fast as 3 months if you are open to the work.

My aim is to help you move towards a place of genuine understanding and mutual appreciation, fostering a deeper and more lasting connection.

Relationship Therapy

Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM), CNM and Swingers.

I support Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) and Open Relationships in my Private practice.

I work within Niki D's 'Seven Stages of Opening Up' to help couples, polyamorous partners, and those in the swinging community.

I provide a safe space to navigate the rules, boundaries and agreements necessary to achieve mutual respect and understanding within your relationship structure.

Therapeutic Approaches

I work within a Bio-Psycho-Social lens of Clinical Sexology blending the proactive tools of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), The Gottman Method and Imago Therapy into my sessions.

This integrated method allows me to provide structured support, focusing our work towards achieving your specific goals and fostering deeper connection.

Qualifications

  • Clinical Sexology, Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy - CICS - COSRT Accred - Level 7
  • Diploma in Integrative Counselling - ABC Awards - Level 4
  • Counselling Skills - ABC Awards - Level 3
  • Counselling Skills - ABC Awards - Level 2
  • Certificate in Online Counselling - Counselling Tutor
  • Certificate in Relational Life Therapy - Terry Real - Level 1

Extended Training CPD

Every year I partake in the minimum of 30 hours of CPD to adhere to COSRT's ethical standards

Below is a brief summary of some of the CPD I have done.

  • Suicidal Awareness - Dr Andrew Reeves
  • Bereavement Counselling - Dr John Wilson
  • Monogamy Versus Non Monogamy - Pink Therapy
  • Working with Couples and Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) - COSRT Accred
  • Working with Partners affected by Compulsive Sexual Behaviours and Porn Addiction - COSRT Accred
  • Personalizing Therapy - Mick Cooper
  • Tribes of Person-Centred - Mick Cooper
  • Goals in Therapy - Mick Cooper
  • Relational Depth - Mick Cooper
  • Imago Therapy - Part 1 - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
  • Imago Therapy - Part 2 - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
  • Imago Therapy - Part 3 - Dr Kalanit Ben- Ari
  • Imago Therapy - Part 4 - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
  • Projection and Transference - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
  • Beyond the Affair - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
  • Considering Separation - Dr Kalanit Ben-Ari
  • Treating "The Untreatable" - Terry Real

What Issues Can Sex Therapy Help With?

Problematic Sexual Behaviours and Porn Use

I can support you in identifying and understanding any issues that you're experiencing related to high sexual desire or pornography use,

These patterns can often lead to feelings of distress, shame or a sense of being out of control, impacting your relationships, work, or overall well-being. In a non shaming space, we will explore the roots of these concerns, helping you regain balance and peace in your life.

Sex Therapy

Struggling with a Decreased Libido? Erection problems, Orgasm Difficulties, experiencing Painful Sex, Ejaculation Issues DE or PE. Anxiety, Depression or Self Esteem Issues?

Individual therapy provides a confidential one-to-one space to address these intimate concerns. I'll support you in exploring underlying themes, help you find solutions and build confidence for a more fulfilling sexual well-being.

Couples Therapy

I help couples tackle Communication Issues, Conflict resolution, Intimacy Issues and Healing from Infidelity & Affairs.

In a safe professional space, we'll confront root causes and develop practical strategies. My lovingly direct approach will hopefully empower you both to rebuild trust, enhance connection, and achieve a more fulfilling relationship together.

How Can Sex Therapy & Couples Therapy Help You?

Seeking therapy for sex and relationship concerns can feel like a big step, but it’s one that can lead to meaningful change.

Whether you are seeking individual sessions, couples counselling or relationship therapy, I can help.

You may be struggling with issues around intimacy, desire, or unhealthy sexual behaviours and may feel stuck, ashamed, or unsure of how to move forward.

Therapy offers you a space to explore these challenges with professional support, helping you to gain insight and develop healthier patterns.


Through a tailored approach, I will work with you to address your specific needs. Whether that means overcoming barriers to intimacy, working through past experiences, or improving communication in relationships.

I offer Goal Focus, Short Term Therapy in helping you build a deeper understanding of yourself and empower you to create more fulfilling connections in your life.

Sex Therapy, Couples Counselling and Relationship Therapy

Sex Therapy

  • Erectile Dysfunction
  • Low libido
  • Painful sex
  • Premature Ejaculation
  • Delayed Ejaculation
  • Difficulty orgasming
  • Lack of sexual desire
  • Sexual performance anxiety
  • Vaginismus
  • Compulsive sexual behaviour
  • Problematic porn use
  • Sexual Trauma
  • Arousal problems
  • Body image and sex
  • Sexual identity
  • Sex after childbirth
  • Sexual dysfunction
  • Kink, fetish and BDSM interests
  • Performance anxiety
  • Anorgasmia

Relationship Therapy

  • Communication problems
  • Intimacy issues
  • Trust issues
  • Conflict resolution
  • Infidelity
  • Emotionally distant
  • Sexual differences
  • Building a stronger connection
  • Divorce and separation
  • Marriage counselling
  • Relationship boundaries
  • Open relationships
  • Polyamory
  • Ethical Non Monogamy
  • Navigating kink boundaries
  • Swinging
  • Pre-marital counselling
  • Resentment
  • Relationship anxiety
  • LGBTQ+ relationships

This list represents just some of the diverse issues I help individuals and couples navigate.

Please reach out - my approach is goal focused.

Specialist Consultation

A specialist consultation £50


This initial 50 minute consultation is designed as a thorough, non shaming space for you to share the challenges you are currently facing.

It allows me to understand the specific dynamics of your situation, whether that involves intimacy issues, problematic porn use, affair recovery or navigating ENM and informs the specialist clinical approach I will take in supporting you.

Its also a vital opportunity for you to experience my way of working, ensuring we are the right fit.

There is no pressure, simply an opportunity to gain clarity and a roadmap for your next steps.

Session Fees

My session fees reflect my specialist qualifications, extensive experience, and the dedicated, confidential space I provide for your therapeutic work.

Individual Therapy £80

(50 min session)

Couples Therapy £110

(60 min session)

All sessions take place online

Payment Policy:

To secure your session, full payment is required via bank transfer at the time of booking.

Bank details will be shared with you as part of the booking process.

Cancellation Policy:

I require 48 hours notice of cancelling an online session.

Any cancellations made under the notice, will sadly incur the full fee being withheld.

My Location and Practice Hours

My practice is based in Chester, Cheshire (CH1) UK. and I work completely online. This allows me to offer accessible psychosexual and relationship therapy to individuals, couples and multiple partnered people throughout the UK.

Whether you are Cheshire, Liverpool or anywhere else in the country, I provide a secure and confidential space for our work together.

Sessions are available weekly and fortnightly.

My diary works from week to week and I do not offer block bookings.

Practice Hours:

  • Tuesdays: 10am till 7pm
  • Wednesdays: 10am till 7pm
  • Thursdays: 10am till 3pm
  • Fridays: 10am till 3pm

Contact Me!

I reply to enquiries within 24 hours Monday to Friday.

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