Trusting Heart Counselling & Sex Therapy
Sex & Relationship Therapy in chester, Cheshire CH1 & online
Online Sex and Relationship Therapist, Kink Positive and Sex Positive, based in Chester, Cheshire, CH1
Rebeca J, Dip, PGDip, MBACP & RegCOSRT
As a Sex and Relationship specialist, I am a Trauma Informed Sex and Kink Positive Therapist. I work with individual adults and couples who are looking for support with sexual, intimacy and relationship issues. I work within all areas of intimacy and sexual issues that is affecting you individually or within your relationships. I offer a non shaming, supportive space in helping you understand your true sexual self.
Areas I specialise in are Low Sexual Desire, Painful Sex, Erection and Ejaculation Problems, Mis Matched Sexual Desire, Orgasm Issues, Menopause, Sexual Identity, Sexual Trauma, Sex and Porn Addictions and Issues from any Kink, Fetish and BDSM interests and practices.
Relationships issues I specialise in are Communication Problems, emotions and feelings after an Affair or a Betrayal, feeling distance from your partner, missing connection and togetherness. Always Arguing and Disagreeing. Experiencing a Mismatch Sexual Needs or Interests. Thoughts around wanting to explore or navigate opening your relationship up to romantic and/or sexual experiences, around the themes of Consensual Non Monogamy and Ethical Non Monogamy.
'Why choose a Sex and Relationship Therapist?'
Sometimes a person or persons needs support from someone who has trained in a specialist field, to help them work through a specific issue. I work ethically and professionally in this area, and as a open minded therapist I offer you a safe space for any sexual, relationship or intimacy issues you may be experiencing, that may also be bringing you anxiety, depression, shame or embarrassment.
I aim to support you, in feeling safe and comfortable within our work together. I have a strong passion for my work and I love what I do!
I offer a niche space in supporting clients within any Kink, Fetish and BDSM issues. Ranging from exploring an interest in this theme and needing a safe space to process emotions and feelings around your sexual beliefs, or understanding and navigating rules and boundaries within this theme.
I'm a Qualified Sex and Relationship Therapist and a Qualified Integrative Therapist, I offer a Trauma-Informed, inclusive practice that is Sex Positive, for all Genders, Sexual Orientations, and Relationship Dynamics, Religious Beliefs and Disabilities.
Qualifications & Training
Please see a list of my qualifications and extended training below:
Qualifications
Level 7, Clinical Sexology, Psychosexual & Relationship Therapy - CICS, COSRT Accred.
Level 4, Integrative Counselling - ABC Awards.
Level 3, counselling Skills - ABC Awards.
Level 2, Counselling Skills - ABC Awards
Extended Training CPD
Suicidal Awareness - Dr Andrew Reeves
Bereavement Counselling - Dr John Wilson
Monogamy Versus Non Monogamy - Pink Therapy
Working with Couples and Compulsive Sexual Behaviours (CSB) - COSRT Accred
Working with Partners affected by Compulsive Sexual Behaviours and Porn Addiction - COSRT Accred
Personalizing Therapy - Mick Cooper
Tribes of Person-Centred - Mick Cooper
Goals in Therapy - Mick Cooper
Relational Depth - Mick Cooper
What issues can therapy help with?
Sex and Porn Addictions
Life can bring many challenges around personal beliefs of Sexual and Porn Addictions and I can support you with identifying and understanding any issues that you are experiencing from a high desire in sexual interest, or pornography use, whether in solo practice or partnered sex. I offer further support around issues of regularly attending sex workers.
Individual Sex Therapy
Areas I can support you with are, Anxiety, Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, Depression, Delayed Ejaculation, Low Sexual Desire, Low Self Esteem, Orgasm Issues, ED, PE, DE, Pain during Penetration, Performance Anxiety, Sexual Trauma, Sexual Jealously, Gender Identity and issues around Sexuality and Coming Out. Any issues around Kink and Fetishes problems and BDSM issues.
Couples Therapy
I offer a inclusive space for couples seeking support with issues from their relationships.
Areas I work within, including those in individual therapy are Affairs, Betrayals, Communication Issues and Mismatched Desires.
Sexual Problems, Ideas around wanting to explore Consensual Non Monogamy and Open Romantic or Sexual Relationships.
How can therapy help you?
Seeking therapy for sex and relationship concerns can feel like a big step, but it’s one that can lead to meaningful change. Many people struggle with issues around intimacy, desire, or unhealthy sexual behaviours and may feel stuck, ashamed, or unsure of how to move forward. Therapy offers a space to explore these challenges with professional support, helping you to gain insight and develop healthier patterns.
Through a tailored approach, we will work together to address your specific needs—whether that means overcoming barriers to intimacy, working through past experiences, or improving communication in relationships. Therapy can help you build a deeper understanding of yourself and empower you to create more fulfilling connections in your life.
If you're ready to take the next step, reach out today to arrange an initial consultation.
Further areas I can support you with:
ADHD
Anger Management
Anxiety
Attachment Issues
Autism
Depression
Coming out/ Sexual Identity
Erectile Dysfunction
Ethical Non Monogamy
Grief
Loss
LGBTQ
Low Self Esteem
Orgasm Issues
Painful Sex During Penetration
Premature Ejaculation / Delay Ejaculation
Relationship Issues
Martial and Pre-Marital
Men’s Issues
Sexual Abuse
Shame
Trauma
Unreliable Erections
Women’s Issues
My practice is fully online and sessions take place for 50 minutes.
I use the WHEREBY platform for all of my sessions.
Initial Consultation
I offer a first session at a reduced fee of £50. During this time, I will conduct a thorough assessment with you, this gives you an idea of my working style, and we can see if we are compatible in working together, moving forwards.
My Location and Practice Hours
My practice is based in Cheshire, Chester, CH1.
All sessions take place online.
Sessions are available weekly and fortnightly.
Session times:
Tuesdays 10am till 7pm
Wednesdays 10am till 7pm
Thursdays 10am till 3pm
Fridays 10am till 3pm
Session Fees
- Individual Sessions £70
- Couples Therapy £90
Payments are to be paid via bank transfer, at the time of booking.
All sessions take place Online for 50 minutes.
Concession Rates
I understand that therapy can be costly and have a small amount of concession sessions available from time to time. Please kindly ask in your enquiry.
Cancellation Policy
I require 48 hours notice of cancelling an online session.
Any cancellations made under the notice, will sadly incur in the full being withheld.
Get in touch
I aim to reply to all messages within 24 hours, Monday to Friday! Please check your junk box as replies can sometimes go there. Reach out today, I look forward to working with you.