Trusting Heart Counselling

Online Clinical Sexologist, Sex and Relationship Therapist based in Chester

Rebeca J, Dip, PGDip, MBACP & RegCOSRT

I offer Sex and Relationship Therapy for individual adults and couples that are looking for support with sex and intimacy issues.

As an Experienced and Qualified Sex and Relationship Therapist and a Qualified Integrative Therapist, I offer a Trauma-Informed, Sex-Positive, and Kink-Positive practice that is inclusive of all Genders, Sexual Orientations, Relationship Dynamics, Religious Beliefs, and Disabilities.

I work in all areas of Sex Therapy, however I have a special interest in Erection and Ejaculation issues, Low Sexual Desire and Porn and Sex Addiction, as well as issues with Compulsive Sexual Behaviors. I work in a non-pathologising manner to understand what is going on for you and to support you toward your goals in these areas.

I offer therapy in a Pluralistic way using the Bio-Pyscho-Social model of Sex Therapy. I also work within the Non shaming Three Stage Model of understanding the issues within Compulsive Sexual Behaviour.

What issues can therapy help with?

Sex and Porn Addictions

Life can bring many challenges around personal beliefs of sexual addictions and I can support you with identifying and understanding issues that you are experiencing from pornography use or high desire in Sexual interest. Whether in solo sex or partnered.

Individual Therapy

Areas I can support you with are, Erectile Dysfunction, Premature Ejaculation, Delayed Ejaculation, Low Sexual Desire, Orgasm Issues, ED, PE, DE, Pain during Penetration, Sexual Trauma, Sexual Jealously, Gender Identity and issues around Sexuality and Coming Out. Any issues around Kink and Fetishes problems and BDSM issues.

Intimate Partner Therapy

I offer a supportive space for couples seeking therapy. Areas I work within including those in individual therapy are Communication problems, Affairs, Betrayals and Mismatched Desires, ideas around wanting to explore Consensual Non Monogamy and Open Romantic or Sexual Relationships. I also offer therapy for poly dynamics.

How can therapy help you?

Seeking therapy for sex and relationship concerns can feel like a big step, but it’s one that can lead to meaningful change. Many people struggle with issues around intimacy, desire, or unhealthy sexual behaviours and may feel stuck, ashamed, or unsure of how to move forward. Therapy offers a space to explore these challenges with professional support, helping you to gain insight and develop healthier patterns.

Through a tailored approach, we will work together to address your specific needs—whether that means overcoming barriers to intimacy, working through past experiences, or improving communication in relationships. Therapy can help you build a deeper understanding of yourself and empower you to create more fulfilling connections in your life.

If you're ready to take the next step, reach out today to arrange an initial consultation.

Further areas I can support you with:

ADHD

Anger management

Anxiety

Autism

Depression

Erectile Dysfunction

Experiencing Painful Sex

LGBTQ

Martial and Pre-marital

Men’s issues

Sexual abuse

Shame

Trauma

Unreliable Erections

Women’s issues

As a Kink Positive Therapist, I offer a non pathologizing space for exploring and working through any issues that have come about from your Kink, Fetish and BDSM interests.

Initial Consultation

I offer a first session at a reduced fee of £50. During this time, I will conduct a thorough assessment with you, this gives you an idea of my working style, and we can see if we are compatible in working together, moving forward.

My Location

I work mainly Online. Offering sessions Tuesday to Fridays and evenings sessions on Tuesdays and Wednesdays!

I also run a small face-to-face practice on Fridays mornings in Heswall, Wirral.

Sessions & Fees

Individual counselling: £70
Intimate Partner Therapy: £90

Payments are to be paid via bank transfer, at the time of booking. All sessions take place for 50 minutes.

Concession Rates

I understand that therapy can be costly and have a small amount of concession sessions available from time to time. Please kindly ask in your enquiry.

Cancellation Policy

I require 48 hours notice of cancelling an online session. Any cancellations made under the notice, sadly payment will be withheld.

Get in touch

I aim to reply to all messages within 24 hours. Please check your junk box as replies can sometimes go there. Reach out today, I look forward to working with you.